What ki points at
気 is not a mystical force in ordinary conversation. It behaves like the inner part of a person that notices things, holds a mood, and leans toward or away from doing something. English splits that job across attention, mood, heart, nerve and will, which is why a single translation never works. Reading 気 as the noticing, feeling, inclining part of you covers almost every phrase in this guide.
The phrases are built by adding a particle and a verb, and the particle carries most of the meaning. Ki o plus a verb means you actively direct that inner attention. Ki ga plus a verb means the attention or mood does something on its own. Ki ni plus a verb means something else becomes the destination of it. Learn the three shapes and unfamiliar ki phrases become guessable.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 気を付けてください。 | Ki o tsukete kudasai. | Please be careful. |
| 気が付きませんでした。 | Ki ga tsukimasen deshita. | I did not notice. |
| 気になっています。 | Ki ni natte imasu. | It is on my mind. |
Attention and care
The care group is the first one most learners meet. 気を付ける literally attaches your attention to something, so it means take care, watch out, and by extension look after yourself. What you are watching goes with に: ashimoto ni ki o tsukete for your feet, kuruma ni ki o tsukete for traffic. The te form on its own, ki o tsukete, is the standard goodbye to someone heading out into the world.
気が付く is its passive twin: your attention arrives by itself, so it means notice or realise. The thing noticed also takes に. Learners frequently swap the two and produce ki o tsukimashita, which is not a sentence. Keep them apart by their particle: tsukeru with o is what you do, tsuku with ga is what happens to you.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 足元に気を付けてください。 | Ashimoto ni ki o tsukete kudasai. | Please watch your step. |
| 車に気を付けて。 | Kuruma ni ki o tsukete. | Watch out for cars. (casual) |
| お体に気を付けてください。 | O-karada ni ki o tsukete kudasai. | Please take care of yourself. |
| 間違いに気が付きました。 | Machigai ni ki ga tsukimashita. | I noticed a mistake. |
| 全然気が付きませんでした。 | Zenzen ki ga tsukimasen deshita. | I did not notice at all. |
| 気が付いたら朝でした。 | Ki ga tsuitara asa deshita. | Before I knew it, it was morning. |
A natural reply to someone noticing your mistake is oshiete kurete arigatō gozaimasu, thank you for telling me. If you are the one who missed something at work, mōshiwake arimasen, ki ga tsukimasen deshita is the standard apology, and it sounds far better than an English-shaped excuse.
Ki ni suru and ki ni naru
This pair carries more conversational weight than any other in the family, and the difference is not strength but direction. 気にする is a choice: you take a thing and make it the object of your attention, usually to worry about it. Because it is a choice, it can be asked for and refused, which is why ki ni shinaide kudasai works as a comfort and hito no me o ki ni suru works as a criticism.
気になる is not a choice: the thing becomes attention-worthy on its own and pulls at you. That pull can be worry, but it can just as easily be curiosity or attraction, so ano mise ga ki ni narimasu means that shop has caught my interest, with no anxiety at all. Ki ni naru hito is the usual way to say someone you are quietly interested in. Say ki ni shite imasu about a person and you sound as if you are holding a grudge.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 気にしないでください。 | Ki ni shinaide kudasai. | Please do not worry about it. |
| そんなに気にしなくてもいいですよ。 | Sonna ni ki ni shinakute mo ii desu yo. | You really do not have to let it bother you. |
| 人の目を気にしすぎです。 | Hito no me o ki ni shisugi desu. | You care too much about what other people think. |
| 気にしていません。 | Ki ni shite imasen. | I am not bothered by it. |
| 結果が気になります。 | Kekka ga ki ni narimasu. | I keep wondering how the result went. |
| あの店が気になっています。 | Ano mise ga ki ni natte imasu. | That shop has caught my interest. |
| 音が気になって眠れませんでした。 | Oto ga ki ni natte nemuremasen deshita. | The noise kept nagging at me and I could not sleep. |
| 気になることがあったら、言ってください。 | Ki ni naru koto ga attara, itte kudasai. | If anything catches your eye, please say so. |
Notice the particles inside the pair as well. With ki ni suru the worried-about thing takes を, and with ki ni naru it takes が, because it has become the subject doing the pulling. Getting that right is a small detail that immediately makes the sentence sound like Japanese rather than a translation.
Mood, willingness and heaviness
The mood group describes how heavy or light the inner state feels. 気が重い is the dread before a difficult meeting, and 気が楽 is the relief afterwards; both are ordinary polite vocabulary that colleagues use freely. 気が進まない says you are not inclined to do something without saying you refuse, which makes it one of the most useful soft declines in the language. Its opposite, 気が向く, means the inclination turns toward something.
気分 and 気持ち both translate as feeling, and they are not interchangeable. Kibun is your overall mood or bodily condition, so kibun ga warui usually means feeling unwell rather than being in a bad temper. Kimochi is a feeling directed at something or a physical sensation, so kimochi ga ii is what you say about a breeze or a hot spring, and o-kimochi wa wakarimasu is what you say to someone who is upset.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 今日は気分がいいです。 | Kyō wa kibun ga ii desu. | I am in good spirits today. |
| 気分が悪いので、早退してもいいですか。 | Kibun ga warui node, sōtai shite mo ii desu ka? | I feel unwell, so may I leave early? |
| 気持ちがいいですね。 | Kimochi ga ii desu ne. | That feels lovely, does it not. |
| お気持ちはよく分かります。 | O-kimochi wa yoku wakarimasu. | I understand how you feel. |
| 明日の面接、気が重いです。 | Ashita no mensetsu, ki ga omoi desu. | I am dreading tomorrow's interview. |
| 正直、気が進みません。 | Shōjiki, ki ga susumimasen. | Honestly, I would rather not. |
| 話したら気が楽になりました。 | Hanashitara ki ga raku ni narimashita. | I felt lighter once I talked about it. |
| 気が向いたら連絡してください。 | Ki ga muitara renraku shite kudasai. | Get in touch if you feel like it. |
Liking, intention and motivation
気に入る literally has the thing enter your ki, and it means to take a liking to something. It is a godan verb, so the polite past is ki ni irimashita and the ongoing state is ki ni itte imasu. Japanese usually reports a settled liking with the ongoing form: kono kaban wa ki ni itte imasu means this bag is one I like, while ki ni irimashita marks the moment the liking landed, which is what you say when you first see the design.
Two habits keep it natural. The liked thing takes を or が depending on the frame, but the safe spoken pattern is X ga ki ni irimashita or X wa ki ni itte imasu. Second, when a host or shop assistant hopes you like something, they say ki ni itte itadakeru to ureshii desu, and the graceful reply is totemo ki ni irimashita.
気 also names the leaning toward an action. 気がある means there is inclination there, and in talk about people it usually implies romantic interest, so kare wa anata ni ki ga aru is a comment about attraction rather than about schedule. The negative その気はない is the ordinary way to say you have no intention of doing something, and it stays polite with a plain verb in front: tenshoku suru ki wa arimasen.
やる気 is the compound everyone at work uses for motivation, and 本気 is seriousness of intent. When your plans change, ki ga kawarimashita states it plainly and without drama. All of these are neutral in register; the only one to handle carefully is ki ga aru about a colleague, since it is gossip by nature.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| このデザイン、気に入りました。 | Kono dezain, ki ni irimashita. | I like this design. |
| 一番気に入っているのはこれです。 | Ichiban ki ni itte iru no wa kore desu. | This is the one I like best. |
| 気に入っていただけて嬉しいです。 | Ki ni itte itadakete ureshii desu. | I am glad you like it. |
| 新しい部屋は気に入っていますか。 | Atarashii heya wa ki ni itte imasu ka? | Are you happy with the new room? |
| 彼はあなたに気があると思います。 | Kare wa anata ni ki ga aru to omoimasu. | I think he is interested in you. |
| 転職する気はありません。 | Tenshoku suru ki wa arimasen. | I have no intention of changing jobs. |
| そんな気はなかったんです。 | Sonna ki wa nakatta n desu. | I did not mean it that way. |
| 今日はやる気が出ません。 | Kyō wa yaru ki ga demasen. | I cannot get myself going today. |
| 本気ですか。 | Honki desu ka? | Are you serious? |
| すみません、気が変わりました。 | Sumimasen, ki ga kawarimashita. | Sorry, I have changed my mind. |
Temperament phrases
A second group describes lasting character, using adjectives instead of verbs. 気が短い pictures a short fuse, so it means quick-tempered, and 気が長い is its patient opposite; the adverb 気長に is what you say when telling someone to wait without stress. 気が強い is strong-willed rather than physically strong, and 気が弱い describes someone who cannot push back, which is why it pairs naturally with kotowaremasen.
気が合う, literally two ki matching, is the everyday way to say you get on well with someone, and it is warmer than nakayoshi desu without being intimate. All of these describe people, so keep them for third parties or for yourself. Saying ki ga mijikai desu ne straight to someone is a criticism, not an observation.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 父は少し気が短いです。 | Chichi wa sukoshi ki ga mijikai desu. | My father is a little quick-tempered. |
| 気長に待ちましょう。 | Kinaga ni machimashō. | Let us wait patiently. |
| 彼女は気が強いですね。 | Kanojo wa ki ga tsuyoi desu ne. | She is strong-willed, is she not. |
| 私は気が弱いので、断れません。 | Watashi wa ki ga yowai node, kotowaremasen. | I am too timid to say no. |
| 私たちは気が合います。 | Watashi-tachi wa ki ga aimasu. | The two of us get on well. |
Social attentiveness at work
The final group is about reading a room. 気が利く praises someone whose attention works well: they refilled the glass before you asked, or they prepared the extra copy. It is a genuine compliment to a colleague and can also describe an object or a shop, as in ki no kiita o-mise. 気を使う is the effort side of the same coin, spending your attention on other people, and it can be either kind or exhausting depending on the sentence.
The polite noun form お気遣い appears constantly in thanks, especially for a gift or a considerate arrangement. When you want a colleague to relax about you, sonna ni ki o tsukawanaide kudasai is the fixed line, and 気軽に invites someone to approach you without formality. These four expressions cover most of the social lubrication in a Japanese office.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 田中さんは本当に気が利きますね。 | Tanaka-san wa hontō ni ki ga kikimasu ne. | Tanaka is genuinely thoughtful, is he not. |
| 気の利いたお店ですね。 | Ki no kiita o-mise desu ne. | What a nicely thought-out place. |
| そんなに気を使わないでください。 | Sonna ni ki o tsukawanaide kudasai. | Please do not go to so much trouble for me. |
| 新しい職場で気を使って疲れました。 | Atarashii shokuba de ki o tsukatte tsukaremashita. | I am worn out from being on my best behaviour at the new workplace. |
| お気遣いありがとうございます。 | O-kizukai arigatō gozaimasu. | Thank you for your thoughtfulness. |
| 気軽に声をかけてください。 | Kigaru ni koe o kakete kudasai. | Feel free to give me a shout. |
The full phrase table
| Phrase | Literal image | Meaning in use | Register |
|---|---|---|---|
| 気を付ける ki o tsukeru | Attach your attention | Be careful, take care | All levels |
| 気が付く ki ga tsuku | Attention arrives | Notice, realise | All levels |
| 気にする ki ni suru | Make it your attention's object | Mind it, worry about it | All levels |
| 気になる ki ni naru | It becomes attention-worthy | Be curious, be bothered | All levels |
| 気にしないで ki ni shinaide | Do not mind it | Never mind, no worries | Friendly, casual to neutral |
| 気分 kibun | Divided feeling | Mood, bodily condition | Neutral |
| 気持ち kimochi | Held feeling | Feeling toward something, sensation | Neutral |
| 気が重い ki ga omoi | Heavy spirit | Dreading something | Neutral |
| 気が楽 ki ga raku | Easy spirit | Relieved, at ease | Neutral |
| 気が進まない ki ga susumanai | The spirit will not advance | Reluctant, not keen | Polite soft decline |
| 気が向く ki ga muku | The spirit turns toward | Feel like doing it | Casual to neutral |
| 気に入る ki ni iru | It enters your spirit | Like, take a liking to | Neutral |
| 気がある ki ga aru | There is inclination | Be interested, often romantically | Casual gossip |
| その気はない sono ki wa nai | No such inclination | Have no intention | Neutral |
| やる気 yaru ki | Doing spirit | Motivation, drive | Neutral |
| 本気 honki | True spirit | Serious, in earnest | Neutral |
| 気が変わる ki ga kawaru | The spirit changes | Change your mind | Neutral |
| 気が短い ki ga mijikai | Short spirit | Quick-tempered | About others, mildly critical |
| 気が長い ki ga nagai | Long spirit | Patient | Neutral |
| 気長に kinaga ni | In a long-spirited way | Patiently, without rushing | Neutral |
| 気が強い ki ga tsuyoi | Strong spirit | Strong-willed, assertive | Neutral |
| 気が弱い ki ga yowai | Weak spirit | Timid, unable to push back | Neutral |
| 気が合う ki ga au | Spirits match | Get on well | Neutral |
| 気が利く ki ga kiku | The attention works | Thoughtful, sharp, considerate | Compliment |
| 気を使う ki o tsukau | Spend your attention | Be considerate, be on guard socially | Neutral |
| お気遣い o-kizukai | Honourable attentiveness | Your kind consideration | Polite |
| 気軽に kigaru ni | With a light spirit | Casually, feel free to | Neutral |
| 気のせい ki no sei | The fault of your spirit | Just your imagination | Neutral |
| 気の毒 ki no doku | Poison to the spirit | A pity, I am sorry for you | Polite, about others |
| 気を落とす ki o otosu | Drop your spirit | Be discouraged | Neutral |
| 気を取り直す ki o torinaosu | Take your spirit back | Pull yourself together | Neutral |
| 平気 heiki | Flat spirit | Fine, unbothered | Casual to neutral |
Register here means whether the phrase is safe with a superior. Most of the list is neutral and fits desu and masu speech without change. The two to watch are ki ga aru, which implies gossip about attraction, and ki ga mijikai, which is a judgement you should not deliver to someone's face.
Pairs learners confuse
| Pair | The difference | Choose it when |
|---|---|---|
| 気にする / 気になる | Suru is a choice to mind; naru is being pulled in | Comforting someone: ki ni shinaide. Curious: ki ni narimasu |
| 気を付ける / 気が付く | Tsukeru directs attention; tsuku is attention arriving | Warning someone: ki o tsukete. Reporting a realisation: ki ga tsukimashita |
| 気分 / 気持ち | Kibun is overall mood or health; kimochi is a feeling toward something | Feeling unwell: kibun ga warui. A pleasant breeze: kimochi ga ii |
| 気が利く / 気を使う | Kiku praises the result; tsukau describes the effort | Praising a colleague: ki ga kikimasu ne. Declining fuss: ki o tsukawanaide |
| 気に入る / 気になる | Iru is settled liking; naru is unsettled interest | After buying: ki ni irimashita. Before buying: ki ni natte imasu |
| やる気 / 本気 | Yaru ki is energy to act; honki is seriousness of intent | No motivation: yaru ki ga demasen. Checking sincerity: honki desu ka |
| 気が長い / 気長に | Adjective about a person; adverb about how to wait | Describing someone: ki ga nagai desu. Advising: kinaga ni machimashō |
Set phrases for hard moments
A handful of ki phrases exist mainly for consoling people, and they are worth learning as fixed units. お気の毒に is the sympathetic line for someone else's misfortune, and it is warmer in tone than its literal poison image suggests. 気を落とさないでください tells someone not to let their spirit drop, and 気を取り直して introduces the recovery: right, let us try again. 気のせい lets you dismiss something you may have imagined without insisting.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 気のせいかもしれません。 | Ki no sei kamo shiremasen. | It might just be my imagination. |
| それはお気の毒に。 | Sore wa o-ki no doku ni. | I am very sorry to hear that. |
| 気を落とさないでください。 | Ki o otosanaide kudasai. | Please do not let it get you down. |
| 気を取り直して、もう一度やります。 | Ki o torinaoshite, mō ichido yarimasu. | I will pull myself together and try once more. |
| 大丈夫です、平気です。 | Daijōbu desu, heiki desu. | It is fine, it does not bother me. |
| どうぞお気になさらないでください。 | Dōzo o-ki ni nasaranaide kudasai. | Please do not give it a second thought. (polite) |
The last line is the honorific version of ki ni shinaide, built on nasaru. Use it with a customer or a senior colleague who has apologised to you for something minor, and pair it with a small bow. To a friend, ki ni shinaide or even the clipped ki ni sunna in casual male speech would sound more natural.
How to drill the ki family
- Sort the phrases by particle first: ki o, ki ga, ki ni. Say all the members of one group in a row so the pattern sinks in.
- For every pair in the confusable table, write one sentence about your own life for each side and read both aloud back to back.
- Practise the reply as well as the line: after ki ni shinaide kudasai, answer arigatō gozaimasu, sō shimasu.
- Record yourself saying ki o tsukete and ki ga tsukimashita until the particle no longer needs a pause before it.
- Collect one ki phrase a week from something you hear or read, and note who said it to whom before you file it.

