The shared idea: expectation and contrast
Ni shite wa and wari ni both build a two-part sentence. The first part sets up a premise that creates an expectation, and the second part says the reality differs from it. In English we say for a beginner, considering the price, or given that, and add surprise with the tone of the sentence.
The result can be better or worse than expected. Shoshinsha ni shite wa jōzu desu, you're good for a beginner, is praise; takai wari ni oishiku nai, it is not tasty considering the price, is a complaint. What matters is the gap, not whether it is positive.
Because both patterns express the speaker's own evaluation of a gap, the second half is a statement or judgement. They do not take requests, commands or intentions after them, which is a common source of mistakes.

| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 初心者にしては上手ですね。 | Shoshinsha ni shite wa jōzu desu ne. | You're good for a beginner. |
| 値段のわりにおいしいです。 | Nedan no wari ni oishii desu. | It's tasty considering the price. |
| 高いわりにおいしくなかった。 | Takai wari ni oishiku nakatta. | It wasn't tasty considering how expensive it was. |
| 十月にしては暑いですね。 | Jūgatsu ni shite wa atsui desu ne. | It's hot for October. |
How to form ni shite wa
Ni shite wa attaches to nouns directly and to verbs in the plain form. Nouns do not take da before it. It usually does not attach to i-adjectives or na-adjectives, which is the main formation difference from wari ni.
The premise is typically a concrete fact: a person's identity or experience, a specific date, a specific amount or a specific situation. Nihon ni jū-nen sunde iru ni shite wa, for someone who has lived in Japan for ten years, is a fact about a person, and it naturally sets an expectation.
| Word type | Pattern | Example | Meaning |
|---|---|---|---|
| Noun | Noun + にしては | 子供にしては | For a child |
| Noun with a number | Number + にしては | 五十歳にしては | For someone aged fifty |
| Verb | Plain form + にしては | 十年住んでいるにしては | For someone who has lived there ten years |
| Verb, past | Plain past + にしては | 一週間練習したにしては | For only a week of practice |
| Adjective | Not usually used | Use わりに instead | 高いわりに, not 高いにしては |
How to form wari ni
Wari ni comes from wari, ratio or proportion, so it literally means in proportion to. It attaches to nouns with no, to na-adjectives with na, and to i-adjectives and verbs in the plain form. Adding wa, wari ni wa, adds emphasis to the contrast.
The premise is a degree or level on a scale: price, age, size, effort, study time. Nedan no wari ni means relative to the price, and the listener fills in whatever expectation that price suggests.
| Word type | Pattern | Example | Meaning |
|---|---|---|---|
| Noun | Noun + のわりに | 年齢のわりに | Considering his age |
| Na-adjective | Adjective + なわりに | 静かなわりに | Considering how quiet it is |
| I-adjective | Adjective + わりに | 安いわりに | Considering it is cheap |
| Verb | Plain form + わりに | よく食べるわりに | Considering how much he eats |
| Verb, past | Plain past + わりに | 勉強したわりに | Considering how much I studied |
| Emphasis | Any of the above + わりには | 値段のわりには | Given the price, at least |
When only one of them works
Many sentences take either pattern, but there are clear cases where only one sounds right. When the premise is a scale word without a specific value, such as nedan, price, toshi, age, or ōkisa, size, use wari ni. Nedan ni shite wa sounds odd, because price on its own is not a fact that sets a level; kono nedan ni shite wa, for this price, is fine because now it is specific.
When the premise is a specific identity or situation that is not a degree, ni shite wa is more natural. Puro ni shite wa, for a professional, and ryūgakusei ni shite wa, for an exchange student, describe categories of people, and wari ni with them sounds less natural to many speakers.
With adjectives, only wari ni works. Takai wari ni and benri na wari ni are natural, while takai ni shite wa is not.
| Premise | にしては | わりに |
|---|---|---|
| 値段 (price in general) | Unnatural | 値段のわりに安っぽい |
| この値段 (this specific price) | この値段にしてはおいしい | この値段のわりにおいしい |
| 年齢 (age in general) | Unnatural | 年齢のわりに若く見える |
| 五十歳 (a specific age) | 五十歳にしては若く見える | Less common |
| 高い (an adjective) | Unnatural | 高いわりにおいしくない |
| プロ (a category of person) | プロにしてはミスが多い | Less natural |
When in doubt, ask whether your premise is a scale or a fact. Scale words go with wari ni; concrete facts and identities go with ni shite wa.
More examples in context
Both patterns are everyday Japanese. You will hear them in reviews, small talk about food and weather, sports commentary and friendly teasing. Pay attention to how the second half always carries the surprise.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 日本に来て半年にしては、日本語が上手ですね。 | Nihon ni kite hantoshi ni shite wa, nihongo ga jōzu desu ne. | Your Japanese is good for someone who has only been in Japan six months. |
| 彼はよく食べるわりに太らない。 | Kare wa yoku taberu wari ni futoranai. | He doesn't put on weight considering how much he eats. |
| この店は駅から遠いわりに、いつも混んでいる。 | Kono mise wa eki kara tōi wari ni, itsumo konde iru. | This shop is always busy considering how far it is from the station. |
| 一生懸命勉強したわりには、点数が低かった。 | Isshōkenmei benkyō shita wari ni wa, tensū ga hikukatta. | My score was low considering how hard I studied. |
| 冗談にしては面白くない。 | Jōdan ni shite wa omoshiroku nai. | For a joke, it isn't funny. |
| このアパートは都心にしては家賃が安い。 | Kono apāto wa toshin ni shite wa yachin ga yasui. | The rent on this flat is cheap for the city centre. |
| 簡単なわりに、時間がかかった。 | Kantan na wari ni, jikan ga kakatta. | It took a long time considering how simple it was. |
Ni shite mo: even granting that
Ni shite mo looks similar but does a different job. Instead of saying reality went against expectation, it accepts a premise and says that even so, something still holds. Jōdan ni shite mo, iisugi da means even if it was a joke, that was going too far.
Paired as A ni shite mo B ni shite mo, it means whether A or B: iku ni shite mo ikanai ni shite mo, renraku shite kudasai, whether you go or not, please let me know. Unlike ni shite wa, this pattern can be followed by requests.
Two fixed expressions are worth learning as chunks. Sore ni shite mo means even so or all the same, and is often used after hearing an explanation that does not fully remove your surprise. Izure ni shite mo means either way or in any case, and is a common way to close a discussion.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 冗談にしても、言いすぎです。 | Jōdan ni shite mo, iisugi desu. | Even if it was a joke, that was going too far. |
| 忙しいにしても、連絡ぐらいはできるでしょう。 | Isogashii ni shite mo, renraku gurai wa dekiru deshō. | Even if you're busy, you could at least get in touch. |
| 行くにしても行かないにしても、連絡してください。 | Iku ni shite mo ikanai ni shite mo, renraku shite kudasai. | Whether you go or not, please let me know. |
| それにしても、今日は寒いですね。 | Sore ni shite mo, kyō wa samui desu ne. | Still, it's really cold today, isn't it? |
| いずれにしても、明日また話しましょう。 | Izure ni shite mo, ashita mata hanashimashō. | Either way, let's talk again tomorrow. |
Common mistakes
- Attaching ni shite wa to adjectives: takai ni shite wa is unnatural; use takai wari ni.
- Forgetting no or na with wari ni: say nedan no wari ni and shizuka na wari ni, not nedan wari ni.
- Following either pattern with a request or intention: gakusei ni shite wa, motto benkyō shinasai is wrong. Use nara or no dakara instead: gakusei na n dakara, motto benkyō shinasai.
- Using them when there is no gap: shoshinsha ni shite wa heta desu, bad for a beginner, sounds strange because beginners are expected to be bad.
- Confusing wari ni the pattern with the adverb warito or wari ni, meaning fairly: warito oishii is fairly good, with no premise.
- Using ni shite mo where ni shite wa was meant: kodomo ni shite mo jōzu means even granting it's a child, it's good, which is a different point.
Related patterns: to shite wa and no ni
Noun plus to shite wa can also mean for a member of that category: hoteru to shite wa semai, small for a hotel. It is close to ni shite wa but focuses on judging something by the standards of its category, and it sounds a little more neutral.
No ni, although, shares the idea of a gap but carries stronger feeling, often frustration or regret: takai no ni oishiku nakatta, it wasn't good even though it was expensive. Wari ni sounds more like a calm evaluation; no ni sounds like a complaint.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| ホテルとしては、部屋が狭い。 | Hoteru to shite wa, heya ga semai. | The rooms are small for a hotel. |
| 高いのに、おいしくなかった。 | Takai no ni, oishiku nakatta. | It wasn't even good, even though it was expensive. |
| 高いわりに、おいしくなかった。 | Takai wari ni, oishiku nakatta. | Considering the price, it wasn't that good. |

