How to form naide and nakute
Both forms start from the plain negative, the nai form. For naide, add de: ikanai becomes ikanaide. For nakute, drop the final i and add kute, exactly as you would with any i-adjective: ikanai becomes ikanakute.
The crucial difference in formation is that naide exists only for verbs. I-adjectives, na-adjectives and nouns have only the nakute form. That alone settles many questions: samukunaide is never correct, only samukunakute.

| Word type | Nai form | Naide | Nakute |
|---|---|---|---|
| Verb (食べる) | 食べない tabenai | 食べないで tabenaide | 食べなくて tabenakute |
| Verb (行く) | 行かない ikanai | 行かないで ikanaide | 行かなくて ikanakute |
| Verb (する) | しない shinai | しないで shinaide | しなくて shinakute |
| Verb (来る) | 来ない konai | 来ないで konaide | 来なくて konakute |
| I-adjective (寒い) | 寒くない samukunai | Not used | 寒くなくて samukunakute |
| Na-adjective (静か) | 静かじゃない shizuka ja nai | Not used | 静かじゃなくて shizuka ja nakute |
| Noun (学生) | 学生じゃない gakusei ja nai | Not used | 学生じゃなくて gakusei ja nakute |
Naide: doing something without doing something else
The first job of naide is describing the circumstances of an action. The sentence has one main action, and naide tells you what was not done while it happened: I went out without an umbrella, I answered without looking at my notes. The subject of both parts is the same person.
The second job is choosing one action instead of another. Instead of taking the bus, I walked. Here too the same person does, or does not do, both things, and the naide clause names the option that was not chosen.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 朝ご飯を食べないで、家を出ました。 | Asagohan o tabenaide, ie o demashita. | I left home without eating breakfast. |
| 傘を持たないで出かけた。 | Kasa o motanaide dekaketa. | I went out without an umbrella. |
| 辞書を使わないで読めますか。 | Jisho o tsukawanaide yomemasu ka. | Can you read it without a dictionary? |
| 砂糖を入れないで飲みます。 | Satō o irenaide nomimasu. | I drink it without sugar. |
| バスに乗らないで、歩いて来ました。 | Basu ni noranaide, aruite kimashita. | I walked here instead of taking the bus. |
| 今日は出かけないで、家で休みます。 | Kyō wa dekakenaide, ie de yasumimasu. | I'll rest at home today instead of going out. |
In every example the naide clause describes the same person's behaviour, and there is no cause and effect. Not eating breakfast did not cause the leaving; it describes how the leaving happened.
Naide kudasai and casual naide
The most familiar use of naide is the negative request. Verb nai form plus de kudasai means please don't. It is polite enough for signs, shops and most conversations. Among friends, kudasai is dropped and naide alone works as don't, usually with a soft or pleading tone.
Naide also combines with hoshii and moraemasen ka to make softer requests. Naide hoshii means I'd rather you didn't, and naide itadakemasen ka is a very polite way to ask someone not to do something, useful with neighbours and customers.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| ここで写真を撮らないでください。 | Koko de shashin o toranaide kudasai. | Please don't take photos here. |
| 心配しないでください。 | Shinpai shinaide kudasai. | Please don't worry. |
| 忘れないでね。 | Wasurenaide ne. | Don't forget, OK? |
| まだ言わないで。 | Mada iwanaide. | Don't tell anyone yet. |
| 一人で行かないでほしい。 | Hitori de ikanaide hoshii. | I'd rather you didn't go alone. |
| 夜遅くに洗濯機を使わないでいただけませんか。 | Yoru osoku ni sentakuki o tsukawanaide itadakemasen ka. | Would you mind not using the washing machine late at night? |
Nakute: because something did not happen
Nakute links a negative cause to a result. Because the bus did not come, I was late. Because I could not understand, I was troubled. The result is usually something that happened outside your control: a feeling, a state or an outcome, such as komarimashita, I was stuck, or zannen desu, it's a shame.
Two restrictions follow from that. First, the second half cannot be a request, an order, an invitation or your own decision. You cannot say ame ga yamanakute, uchi ni imashō, let's stay in because the rain hasn't stopped. For that, use nai kara or nai node. Second, the two parts often have different subjects, which is impossible with naide.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| バスが来なくて、遅刻しました。 | Basu ga konakute, chikoku shimashita. | The bus didn't come, so I was late. |
| 意味が分からなくて、困りました。 | Imi ga wakaranakute, komarimashita. | I didn't understand the meaning, so I was stuck. |
| 昨日は眠れなくて、今とても眠いです。 | Kinō wa nemurenakute, ima totemo nemui desu. | I couldn't sleep last night, so I'm really sleepy now. |
| 彼女に会えなくて、寂しいです。 | Kanojo ni aenakute, sabishii desu. | I miss her because I can't see her. |
| 試験に合格できなくて、残念でした。 | Shiken ni gōkaku dekinakute, zannen deshita. | It was a shame I couldn't pass the exam. |
| 雨がやまないので、家にいましょう。 | Ame ga yamanai node, ie ni imashō. | The rain isn't stopping, so let's stay in. |
Nakute with adjectives and nouns: not A but B
With adjectives and nouns, nakute is the only negative te form. It can give a reason, as with verbs: the room wasn't quiet, so I couldn't concentrate. It can also simply link a negative description to the next one: this soup isn't spicy and is easy to eat.
With nouns and na-adjectives, ja nakute has a very common corrective use: not A but B. You say what something is not, then what it is. This is how you correct a misunderstanding politely, and you will use it constantly when ordering, checking names or fixing mistakes.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 部屋が静かじゃなくて、集中できませんでした。 | Heya ga shizuka ja nakute, shūchū dekimasen deshita. | The room wasn't quiet, so I couldn't concentrate. |
| このスープは辛くなくて、食べやすいです。 | Kono sūpu wa karakunakute, tabeyasui desu. | This soup isn't spicy, so it's easy to eat. |
| コーヒーじゃなくて、紅茶をお願いします。 | Kōhī ja nakute, kōcha o onegai shimasu. | Not coffee but black tea, please. |
| 私は学生じゃなくて、先生です。 | Watashi wa gakusei ja nakute, sensei desu. | I'm not a student, I'm a teacher. |
| 右じゃなくて、左です。 | Migi ja nakute, hidari desu. | Not right, left. |
| 値段が高くなくて、よかった。 | Nedan ga takakunakute, yokatta. | I'm glad it wasn't expensive. |
With verbs, the not A but B idea is usually expressed with naide or with no de wa naku: kaimono ni itta no de wa naku, tomodachi ni ai ni itta, it wasn't that I went shopping; I went to see a friend.
Nakute mo ii and related patterns
Adding mo ii to nakute gives you don't have to or it's fine not to. It is the natural answer to a question asking whether something is necessary, and the polite version is nakute mo ii desu or, more politely, nakute mo kamaimasen.
Its opposite is must: nakute wa ikenai or nakute wa naranai, very often heard in the shorter spoken forms nakucha and nakya. Many learners meet nakereba naranai first, which means the same thing.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 明日は来なくてもいいです。 | Ashita wa konakute mo ii desu. | You don't have to come tomorrow. |
| 靴を脱がなくてもいいですか。 | Kutsu o nuganakute mo ii desu ka. | Is it all right if I don't take my shoes off? |
| 全部食べなくてもいいよ。 | Zenbu tabenakute mo ii yo. | You don't have to eat it all. |
| 予約しなくても大丈夫です。 | Yoyaku shinakute mo daijōbu desu. | You don't need a reservation. |
| もう帰らなくてはいけません。 | Mō kaeranakute wa ikemasen. | I have to go home now. |
| 早く寝なきゃ。 | Hayaku nenakya. | I have to go to bed early. (casual) |
Zu ni: the written version of naide
Zu ni means without doing, just like naide, but it is more formal and more common in writing, news and careful speech. To make it, take the nai form and replace nai with zu ni: tabenai becomes tabezu ni, ikanai becomes ikazu ni.
There is one irregular form to learn: suru becomes sezu ni, not shizu ni. Kuru becomes kozu ni. Zu ni does not form requests, so there is no zu ni kudasai; for requests you still use naide kudasai.
You will also see zu on its own, with a comma, working like nakute to give a cause in written Japanese: yoku wakarazu, komatta, not understanding well, I was at a loss.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 何も言わずに帰った。 | Nani mo iwazu ni kaetta. | He went home without saying anything. |
| 朝食をとらずに出発した。 | Chōshoku o torazu ni shuppatsu shita. | They set off without having breakfast. |
| 勉強せずに試験を受けた。 | Benkyō sezu ni shiken o uketa. | I took the exam without studying. |
| あきらめずに頑張ってください。 | Akiramezu ni ganbatte kudasai. | Please keep going and don't give up. |
Common mistakes with naide and nakute
- Samukunaide or shizuka ja naide: adjectives and nouns have no naide form. Use samukunakute and shizuka ja nakute.
- Wasurenakute kudasai for please don't forget. Requests always use naide: wasurenaide kudasai.
- Tabenakute dekaketa for I went out without eating. Without doing is naide: tabenaide dekaketa.
- Densha ga konaide, okureta for the train didn't come, so I was late. A cause with a different subject needs nakute: densha ga konakute, okureta.
- Putting a request after nakute: jikan ga nakute, isoide kudasai. Use nai kara or nai node before requests and suggestions.
- Shizu ni for without doing. The zu form of suru is sezu ni.

