Understanding comes long before speaking
Most learners meet keigo as something to produce, which is hard. In daily life the balance is the other way round: you hear honorific language many times a day and need to say it very rarely.
That makes listening the right place to start. Recognition is quicker to build than production, and it removes most of the anxiety around service conversations.
The patterns that do most of the work
Each of these is a polite wrapper around an ordinary verb or phrase. Learn to spot the wrapper and the meaning inside becomes clear.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 少々お待ちください。 | Shōshō omachi kudasai. | Please wait a moment. (from matsu, to wait) |
| こちらでございます。 | Kochira de gozaimasu. | It is this way, here it is. (de gozaimasu replaces desu) |
| ご確認いただけますか。 | Go-kakunin itadakemasu ka. | Could you check, please? (a polite request) |
| ポイントカードはお持ちでしょうか。 | Pointo kādo wa omochi deshō ka. | Do you have a points card? (from motsu, to have) |
| ご案内いたします。 | Go-annai itashimasu. | I will show you the way. (itashimasu replaces shimasu) |
| 本日は休業させていただきます。 | Honjitsu wa kyūgyō sasete itadakimasu. | We are closed today. (a humble announcement) |
At the shop counter
Convenience stores and supermarkets follow a script that barely changes. The questions come in the same order, so once you know them you can often answer before the question ends.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 袋はご利用になりますか。 | Fukuro wa go-riyō ni narimasu ka. | Would you like a bag? |
| 温めますか。 | Atatamemasu ka. | Shall I heat it up? |
| お箸はお付けしますか。 | Ohashi wa otsuke shimasu ka. | Would you like chopsticks? |
| お会計は八百円でございます。 | Okaikei wa happyaku-en de gozaimasu. | That comes to eight hundred yen. |
| レシートはご入用ですか。 | Reshīto wa go-iriyō desu ka. | Do you need the receipt? |
| 大丈夫です。 | Daijōbu desu. | I am fine, no thank you. |
| はい、お願いします。 | Hai, onegaishimasu. | Yes, please. |
Unihongo's Convenience Store Checkout roleplay mission puts you in this kind of exchange at natural speed, so you can practise hearing the questions and answering quickly.
At the station
Announcements use humble and honorific forms for the same reason shops do: they address the public. The vocabulary is small and repeats constantly.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| まもなく二番線に電車が参ります。 | Mamonaku niban-sen ni densha ga mairimasu. | A train will soon arrive at platform two. |
| 黄色い線の内側までお下がりください。 | Kiiroi sen no uchigawa made osagari kudasai. | Please step back behind the yellow line. |
| ご迷惑をおかけしております。 | Go-meiwaku o okake shite orimasu. | We apologise for the inconvenience. |
| お忘れ物のないよう、ご注意ください。 | Owasuremono no nai yō, go-chūi kudasai. | Please take care not to leave anything behind. |
At an office or on the phone
Receptionists and callers use keigo that often concerns you directly: your name, your appointment, who you want to see. Knowing the questions lets you prepare the answers.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| お名前をお伺いしてもよろしいでしょうか。 | Onamae o oukagai shite mo yoroshii deshō ka. | May I ask your name? |
| どちら様でしょうか。 | Dochira-sama deshō ka. | Who is calling, please? |
| ご予約はされていますか。 | Go-yoyaku wa sarete imasu ka. | Do you have an appointment? |
| こちらにご記入いただけますか。 | Kochira ni go-kinyū itadakemasu ka. | Could you fill this in, please? |
| 担当の者が参ります。 | Tantō no mono ga mairimasu. | The person in charge will come. |
| はい、三時に予約しています。 | Hai, sanji ni yoyaku shite imasu. | Yes, I have an appointment at three. |
Strategies when it goes too fast
- Listen for the noun first: bag, card, receipt, name. It usually tells you the question.
- Treat o and go at the start and kudasai or deshō ka at the end as wrapping, not content.
- Learn each place's script in order, because the next question is predictable.
- Ask sumimasen, mō ichido onegaishimasu without embarrassment; staff rephrase willingly.
- Reply in short, ordinary polite Japanese; keigo back is not expected.
- Rehearse the full exchange before a new kind of visit, such as a hotel or clinic.
Unihongo's Hotel Check-in Problem and Describe Symptoms at a Clinic missions are good next steps, because receptionists in both use exactly this kind of formal language.

