Two festivals for children
Both days belong to the traditional seasonal festivals called sekku. Hinamatsuri on 3 March is also called momo no sekku, the peach festival, and is traditionally associated with girls. Children's Day on 5 May grew out of tango no sekku, traditionally the boys' festival.
Today many families celebrate both in a relaxed way, and the core meaning is the same: wishing children healthy growth and happiness.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| ひな祭り | Hinamatsuri | The doll festival, 3 March |
| 桃の節句 | momo no sekku | The peach festival: another name for 3 March |
| こどもの日 | Kodomo no Hi | Children's Day, 5 May |
| 端午の節句 | tango no sekku | The traditional boys' festival on 5 May |
| 節句 | sekku | Seasonal festival |
| 子どもの成長を願う | kodomo no seichō o negau | To wish for a child's growth |
Hina dolls and the display
The centrepiece of Hinamatsuri is a display of ornamental dolls representing an imperial court, with the emperor and empress dolls at the top. Displays range from a single pair to many tiers covered in red cloth.
Families usually set the dolls out some weeks before 3 March. An old saying warns that leaving them out too long delays a daughter's marriage, which people mostly repeat with a smile.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| ひな人形 | hina ningyō | Hina dolls |
| お内裏様とお雛様 | o-dairi-sama to o-hina-sama | The emperor and empress dolls |
| ひな人形、きれいですね。 | Hina ningyō, kirei desu ne. | The hina dolls are beautiful. |
| もう出しましたか。 | Mō dashimashita ka. | Have you put them out yet? |
| 早く片付けないとね。 | Hayaku katazukenai to ne. | We'd better put them away soon. |
Carp streamers and helmets
Around Children's Day, carp streamers called koinobori fly from poles outside houses and across rivers. The carp symbolise strength and success, because carp are said to swim upstream.
Inside, families may display a samurai helmet or a warrior doll. On the day, some families take a bath with iris leaves, shōbu-yu, which is associated with good health.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| こいのぼり | koinobori | Carp streamers |
| 五月人形 | gogatsu ningyō | May dolls: warrior dolls |
| 兜 | kabuto | Samurai helmet |
| 菖蒲湯 | shōbu-yu | A bath with iris leaves |
| こいのぼりが泳いでいますね。 | Koinobori ga oyoide imasu ne. | The carp streamers are swimming in the wind. |
Seasonal sweets and dishes
Each festival has its own seasonal foods, and shops and supermarkets stock them in the days before. They are easy conversation topics and a good way to take part even without children.
Customs vary by family and region, so treat these as common examples rather than fixed menus.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| ひなあられ | hina-arare | Colourful rice crackers for Hinamatsuri |
| 菱餅 | hishimochi | Diamond-shaped rice cake |
| ちらし寿司 | chirashizushi | Scattered sushi |
| 柏餅 | kashiwamochi | Oak-leaf rice cake |
| ちまき | chimaki | Leaf-wrapped rice dumpling |
| Festival | Food | What it is |
|---|---|---|
| Hinamatsuri | Colourful rice crackers | Small sweet puffed rice snacks |
| Hinamatsuri | Diamond-shaped rice cake | Layered pink, white and green mochi |
| Hinamatsuri | Scattered sushi | Rice topped with colourful ingredients |
| Children's Day | Oak-leaf rice cake | Mochi with sweet bean filling wrapped in an oak leaf |
| Children's Day | Wrapped rice dumpling | Sweet dumplings wrapped in leaves, especially common in western Japan |
Congratulating a family
A baby's first festival, hatsuzekku, is often celebrated with relatives and sometimes a meal or photo. If a colleague or friend mentions it, a short congratulation is warm and appropriate.
Omedetō gozaimasu works for the family, and a line about the child's healthy growth adds a thoughtful touch.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 初節句 | hatsuzekku | A baby's first seasonal festival |
| 初節句おめでとうございます。 | Hatsuzekku omedetō gozaimasu. | Congratulations on your baby's first festival. |
| 元気に大きくなりますように。 | Genki ni ōkiku narimasu yō ni. | May they grow up healthy and strong. |
| お祝いは何をするんですか。 | O-iwai wa nani o suru n desu ka. | What will you do to celebrate? |
Talking about the days
Even without children, these festivals give you easy seasonal conversation: noticing displays in shops, asking about childhood memories, or comparing customs with your own country.
Questions about someone's childhood celebrations are usually welcome and lead to nice stories.
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 子どものころ、ひな祭りをしましたか。 | Kodomo no koro, Hinamatsuri o shimashita ka. | Did you celebrate Hinamatsuri as a child? |
| 柏餅を買ってきたよ。 | Kashiwamochi o katte kita yo. | I bought some kashiwamochi. |
| 私の国にも子どもの日があります。 | Watashi no kuni ni mo kodomo no hi ga arimasu. | My country has a children's day too. |
| こどもの日は祝日ですね。 | Kodomo no Hi wa shukujitsu desu ne. | Children's Day is a public holiday, isn't it? |

